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2017 Memorial Service Gallery

The selection of photos below are from the December 6, 2017 Memorial Service for Victims of Violence held at the Confederation Centre of the Arts (venue sponsor). Thanks to everyone who attended the service and participated in the 2017 Purple Ribbon Campaign Against Violence.

We remember 1989
28 Years Since the Montreal Massacre

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Child Protection Act Review: Council’s Advice to Government

Earlier this autumn, after much study and review, members of the Advisory Council on the Status of Women submitted advice to government regarding the Child Protections Act review recommendations released in January of this year in an excellent, comprehensive report created by a government-appointed advisory committee. Council has now provided their advice to the Minister Responsible for the Status of Women, the Minister of Family and Human Services, and the Premier and is pleased to make its advice public.

Council would like to note that since developing and submitting this document, there have been several new developments. We have learned, for instance, that home studies for kinship placements are being expedited, as recommended, and that policies for social worker interactions with children in need of protection are changing significantly, informed by the voices of youth who have experience with Child Protection. These are good-news updates. We hope that there is more good news to come.

Among other developments to track in 2018:

  1. Establishment of a Poverty Reduction Strategy Advisory Council to develop a poverty reduction strategy and any progress on a social policy framework
  2. A promise that new supports for grandparents and caregivers to children in need of protection will extend beyond the current “interim phase” support for grandparents and caregivers of children with open child protection services
  3. Implementation of the “Structured Decision-Making” model recommended in the Child Protection Act review; the software to support this model HAS been included in the capital budget, which is good news.

We look forward to continuing to monitor developments in Child Protection.

Priority Recommendations Coming Out of the Child Protection Act Review Released in January 2017

Prince Edward Island Advisory Council on the Status of Women


The members of the PEI Advisory Council on the Status of Women, with care and concern for the wellbeing of women, children, and families, and with a mandate to advise government on issues that affect the status of Prince Edward Island women, has been reviewing the recommendations coming out of the Child Protection Act review released in January. It is our view that the report and its recommendations are excellent, and we support them strongly. For the last number of months, we have been studying the recommendations with a view to support several recommendations we see as having a high priority.

We know that during this same time that we have been studying the recommendations, government has been working hard to implement recommendations. We are heartened to know this work is underway. We were particularly heartened to hear government’s announcement that it will financially support grandparents and other loved ones who are caring for children in need of protection. It is our hope that this brief on the priorities that we see, as citizens appointed by government to provide our advice, will complement and support government’s ongoing work to implement recommendations.

The preamble to the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child considers family “as the fundamental group of society and the natural environment for the growth and well-being of all its members and particularly children,” and therefore sees that the family “should be afforded the necessary protection and assistance so that it can fully assume its responsibilities within the community.” This is the human rights framework in which child protection legislation must be applied to fully support the best interests of children: “protection” and “assistance” for families to be responsible for children, before the state, where necessary for a child’s protection and assistance, removes that child from the family.

In summary, what Council members would like to see are protections and assistance to families in cases where these have a strong probability of supporting children’s welfare. And, where children must be removed from their families for their safety and wellbeing, protection and assistance must follow the children.

We want to see the Child Protection Act outline services to children in need and high needs children and youth as well as to children in need of protection who have experienced harm or who are at substantial risk of harm. This requires systemic change.

As many expressed in the Child Protection Act review, systemic change requires collaborative, integrated approaches that include families, communities, and government, each playing a part to fulfill our responsibility to children.


Council members wanted to use this brief to provide guidance about what recommendations rose to the top as immediate priorities. The following are the priorities for public policy–focused recommendations and service delivery–focused recommendations.

First Public Policy Priority: Establish Mechanisms for Effective Data Collection and Measurement of Outcomes

As Council members studied the Child Protection Act review, what stood out foremost were the gaps in data and measurement outlined in the report. As a first step, we put high and urgent priority on government action on public policy–focused Recommendations #9–14 regarding data collection and measurement of outcomes. Without the underpinning of good data collection and strong measurement of outcomes, the effectiveness of any further action on these important recommendations cannot be known.

First Service Delivery Priority: Support for Least Intrusive Living Arrangements and Expedited Kinship Placements

Council members, like many others who participated in the Child Protection Act review, expressed confusion between least intrusive living arrangements and kinship placements. As we came to understand the difference between these interventions, and the roles of the state and of the family in each, Council members were firm in expressing a desire for government to act on service delivery–focused Recommendations #31–34 regarding least intrusive arrangements and Recommendation #35 regarding expedited Kinship Foster Parent assessments.

Most important within these recommendations is the importance of providing supports and assistance to support those who take on a role as caregivers to children in a “least-intrusive” arrangement: grandparents, aunts and uncles, cousins, and others who take over the care of children in need require help and assistance. It is important, first, to ensure that if poverty is the primary reason that children are in need of protection, better supports should be available to parents to keep and care for their children themselves. When children need to be in a different home from their parents, financial supports to grandparents, other family members, and friends who already have close relationships with the children are essential. When a formal Kinship Foster Parent placement is the best solution, Kinship Foster Parents require additional support to help them overcome barriers in their homes to being eligible as foster homes.

As the Province examines a Provincial Housing Strategy, we urge government to consider programs that support housing for families, including grants and loans for renovations that support caregiving to children, vulnerable adults, and seniors.

Council members strongly support the new measures government has announced to support grandparents, family, and friends caring for children in need. This is a substantial positive measure for children’s wellbeing and protection.

Lack of means or of immediate supports should not be a barrier to people who are willing to take care and responsibility for children in need of protection, especially if those children are children whom they love and are already attached to.

It should be noted that the members of the PEI Advisory Council on the Status of Women take a broad view of “kinship” and an inclusive definition of “family,” such as that used by the Vanier Institute of the Family, which begins, “Any combination of two or more persons who are bound together over time by ties of mutual consent, birth and/or adoption or placement and who, together, assume responsibilities…” (The full definition is available here:

Equality Report Card Priority Actions and Child Protection Act Recommendations

The PEI Advisory Council on the Status of Women assesses government’s progress towards selected women’s equality goals through the Equality Report Card. The priority actions our Council recommends for government were made public and shared in June 2016 and include a number of priorities that align or overlap with the recommendations in the Child Protection Act review.

Recommendation #4. That Government commit to implementing a comprehensive poverty reduction strategy to include multiple social policy departments through public engagement while working with the Federal Government to determine the best means of income and program support for our Island population to include exploring mechanisms for ending child and family poverty in PEI, including the benefits and costs of PEI serving as a pilot site for implementation of a Basic Income Guarantee.”

In the preamble to the section on Women’s Economic Status, the Equality Report Card calls for “responsive and flexible social programs and an effective cross- governmental provincial strategy to reduce or eliminate poverty.”

Two of the priority action areas in this section of the Report Card are the following:

  • Increased social assistance rates that ensure individuals and families are able to meet their basic needs, including steps towards implementing a basic income guarantee for all Islanders
  • An expanded mandate for social assistance programs to support more economically vulnerable Islanders (including, for example, increased eligibility, more access to flexible short-term emergency support, more support for people to transition from social assistance to independent livelihood)

These priority action recommendations strongly support Recommendation #4.

Recommendation #5. That the province adopt a population approach to mental health and addictions that recognizes the importance of and provides resources for promotion and prevention, early identification, timely and appropriate intervention, and ongoing support, and that the presence of children in a family be taken into account when prioritizing access to services.”

It is our view that this recommendation adds substance and values that we support to the Equality Report Card priority action under Women’s Health that calls for

  • Increased funding and services in mental health in community mental health and other non-urgent and preventative care, including gender-specific services

Recommendation #6. The Advisory Committee recommends that the province continue with widespread implementation of the Triple P Positive Parenting Program, the Positive Parenting From Two Homes Program and the Period of Purple Crying Program.”

The PEI Advisory Council on the Status of Women has been strongly supportive of parenting programs and specifically recommends in the section on Supports for Caregiving:

  • Continued support for and promotion of the “Triple P” positive parenting program for PEI

Recommendation #15. That government establish effective mechanisms to ensure that the basic rights and freedoms of children are maintained, that they are afforded the opportunity to participate in matters that affect them, and that their voices are heard by a neutral third party not connected to government services.”

In our view, the most “effective mechanism to ensure that the basic rights and freedoms of children” is without question a child and youth advocate, and under the section on Access to Justice, the Equality Report Card priority actions call for

  • Steps towards establishing a provincial child and youth advocacy office or other mechanisms to serve children and youth involved in provincial government systems (such as independent case review, policy audits, and arms-length reporting to the Legislature and the public on issues)

While government has established new services or enhanced existing services to meet some of the goals outlined in the Child Protection Act review Recommendation #15, we remain convinced that Prince Edward Island requires an independent child advocate office.
We see the hiring of a Children’s Lawyer as a valuable and important step to fulfilling parts of Recommendation #15, and, more pertinently, Recommendation #16. And yet, we acknowledge that a Children’s Lawyer is not a child advocate.

Recommendation #18: That the province establish a Child Death and Serious Injury Review process and a Domestic Homicide Review process, each to be operational by 30 June 2017.”

While calling for a Child Death and Serious Injury and a Domestic Homicide review processes is not a specific priority action called for in the 2018 Equality Report Card, the 2015 Equality Report Card called for these processes: “We join the call for Domestic Violence Death Reviews and Child Death and Serious Injury Reviews for PEI.” We are an active part of the Premier’s Action Committee on Family Violence Prevention, which calls for these processes as well.

In addition to implementing Prince Edward Island death and serious injury reviews, we amplify this recommendation by recommending that those charged with death and serious injury reviews examine relevant reviews from other jurisdictions in any six-month period when there is no local review. We should, as a province, learn from elsewhere to proactively prevent deaths and serious injury, in addition to responding to local preventable tragic events.

Recommendation #25: That Child Protection Services conduct a jurisdictional scan regarding utilization of alternative dispute resolution (ADR) in child protection matters and, in consultation with appropriate government and community partners, establish policies and procedures regarding utilization of ADR in this province.”

Among 2018 Equality Report Card priority actions for Access to Justice is the following:

  • Steps towards expanded resources for family mediation, counselling, and conflict resolution that reduce/prevent families from requiring legal proceedings

We acknowledge that alternative dispute resolution would require gender and diversity analysis to avoid unintended negative outcomes. ADR is not advisable or safe in all circumstances; these alternative resolution mechanisms may not be appropriate in situations where there is an imbalance of power, abuse, or violence.

Recommendation #21. That Child Protection Services develop and implement protocols for when it is deemed necessary to share information with the other parent to ensure that the child is protected from harm.”

This recommendation for an information-sharing protocol and other recommendations related to information sharing strike us as essential, and it is extremely important that protocols be sensitive to the dynamics of violence against women and of family violence. The preamble to the Violence Prevention section of the Equality Report Card calls for “government services to be gender appropriate, culturally sensitive, and trauma-informed.” (We note that Recommendation #43 also calls for “a trauma informed approach to group care … in all Child & Family Services group homes.”)

One of the most troubling, recurrent stories we hear from women who have left abusive relationships is that ex-partners and/or their families use reports to child protection as a way to continue abuse, manipulation, and control. One woman whose experience of abuse included reports to child protection meant to control, shame, humiliate, and create fear in her of losing her child(ren) told us her story. She said, “I would rather be punched in the head every day than go through what I am going through.”

As a result of stories such as this one, one priority action called for in the 2018 Equality Report Card is

  • Use of best-practice, updated, or new tools to prevent or respond to violence, including woman abuse/spousal abuse protocols and policies and/or risk assessment tools

Other recommendations that call for protocols or policies and procedures of particular interest include Recommendation #50: That Child Protection Services develop policies and procedures for the delivery of child protection services to children between the ages of sixteen (16) and eighteen (18) years of age and an abandoned child.

Services, policies, and procedures for the group of children between the ages of 16 and 18 require particular scrutiny with a gender and diversity lens. The risks and vulnerabilities for young women in this age group are different from those of young men. Similarly, recommendations related to extended services for young people after they are 18 years old should be subject to gender and diversity analysis before they are implemented.

Recommendation #52. That Child Protection Service staff, and staff with such other services as might be identified by the Senior Leadership Group, undergo periodic training regarding family violence and its impacts upon children, such training to be comprised of interventions with demonstrated evidence for enhancing participants’ knowledge, attitudes, and/or skills.”

The recommendation for training regarding family violence and its impacts upon children is clearly echoed in the following priority action for the 2018 Equality Report Card:

  • Examples of training for intervention in family violence, relationship violence, and violence against women and children for front-line workers such as police, justice workers, and child protection workers

Support for Additional Resources

In conclusion, the PEI Advisory Council on the Status of Women joins its voice to the voices that call in the Child Protection Act review report for additional resources in Recommendation #17, and wherever additional resources are necessary for the safety and care of Island children.

Recommendation #17. The Advisory Committee recommends that the senior leadership group referenced in recommendation two (2) develop a plan for a broader child welfare system promoting healthy child and family development and addressing “children in need” and “high needs children and youth” and that includes (i) allocating substantial additional resources to Child and Family Services; or (ii) allocating substantial additional resources to other governmental and community services; or (iii) such combination of (i) and (ii) as would be most effective and efficient.”

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Treena Smith’s December 6, 2017, Comments: Don’t stand by. Stand with.

We were honoured to have Treena Smith as the speaker at the Charlottetown, PEI, 2017, Montreal Massacre Memorial Service, hosted by the PEI Advisory Council on the Status of Women.

We invited Treena to speak because of her work leading pro-social bystander intervention training through her work as Director of Student Affairs at UPEI. Treena also has an extensive background working with offenders and gives a lot of her volunteer time to work with the LGBTQ+ community and the Canadian Mental Health Association. Below are a video of her comments, followed by a transcript.
Thank you so much, Treena, for being part of a meaningful and moving service.

Hi everyone – My name is Treena Smith and I am the Director of Student Affairs at UPEI.

I would like to thank Michelle Jay, Jane Ledwell and the PEI Advisory Council on the Status of Women for asking me to speak here today.

Firstly, I would like to acknowledge that the land on which we gather is the ancestral and unceded territory of Epekwitk, the Mi’kmaq name for Prince Edward Island, and Mi’kma’ki, the territory of the Mi’kmaw People of this region.

I also want to remember all the missing and murdered Indigenous and non-Indigenous women who have lost their lives due to violence.

I vividly remember December 6, 1989. I was ending my first semester of my first year of my first degree. I remember trying to find out information and processing why these women were shot…..just for being women.

I remember seeing women on campus crying and being very vocal about violence against women and the need for more education, support and resources ……. and here we are in 2017…..asking for the same things.

It has been 28 years since that day – I finished that degree at UPEI and went on to get other degrees and more education on life……moved provinces, worked in different areas but there has been one constant ‘violence against women’.

I think everyone in this room would agree that violence against women is a huge problem in our world — but we continued to be under resourced.

We live in a world where one of the most powerful men in the world can be overheard talking about sexually assaulting women and not loose his job – but we are also living in a world where the #metoo campaign has been exploding.

Social media is a powerful force but what is evident to me is that most women whom I know have experienced some sort of sexual assault or harassment in their lives. More women are speaking about their own need for resources, supports and education on a personal level.

With all that said – I have hope – a lot of hope for our world.

As I said at the beginning I work at UPEI and have the privilege everyday to work with students. Students are working very hard at making the world a better place to live and I am so lucky to have the opportunity to work with them. I have the best job in the world.

One of the reasons I am here today is to talk about a program which I brought to UPEI 3 years ago called the Bystander Intervention program. I believe this program can be delivered in many different areas of our community.

Three years ago myself and some of my colleagues went to St. Mary’s University to receive training to facilitate the Bringing in the Bystander Intervention Program through the University of New Hampshire.

We received the training, bought the program and started implementing the program immediately at UPEI.

Bringing in the Bystander Program fits very well with this years Purple Ribbon Campaign of

Don’t Stand By. Stand With.

Bringing in the Bystander is a 2-hour workshop where we facilitate groups of 20-25 people and teach them how to be prosocial bystanders.

Prosocial bystanders are bystanders whose behaviour intervenes in situations, which impact the outcome positively.

Participants of this program will hopefully come to understand that everyone has an important role to play in the intervention and prevention of sexual violence.

Rather than focusing strictly on the roles of perpetrator and victim, the highly interactive Bringing in the Bystander Prevention Program uses a community of responsibility approach.

It teaches participants how to safely intervene in instances where an incident may be occurring or where there may be risk.

We use videos and group discussions to help participants see that each and every one of us has the power to change not only specific situations or outcomes, but the power to challenge social norms around sexual violence.

Participants learn how to identify inappropriate behaviour along the continuum of sexual and relationship violence and how to respond to it safely.

The main objectives of this program are to help students develop critical thinking skills and the ability to talk about sexual violence education in a way that is productive and non-threatening.

Recently a facilitator of the program was out shopping downtown Ch’town and a student approached him to let him know what a positive impact the workshop has had on him and his friends. It’s pretty powerful when over a year later student was willing to have that discussion with a facilitator.

We have offered this program to more than 600 people and it has allowed us to start the conversation and education about sexual violence.

Working with students, in programs like this, and having important and challenging discussions, continues to give me hope for a better and safer world for women.

Thank you

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Everyone Has a Part to Play in Preventing Violence Against Women / Tout le monde a un rôle à jouer pour prévenir la violence envers les femmes

Everyone Has a Part to Play in Preventing Violence Against Women

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December 6, 2017

On December 6, 1989, fourteen women who were students at École Polytechnique in Montreal were murdered because they were women. In the days following the Montreal Massacre, vigils were held across Canada to remember the victims and to raise awareness of violence against women. In Charlottetown a crowd of women and men attended the vigil in front of the provincial government buildings. We stood together in solidarity in the frigid December night, our tears mingling with the wax dripping from the candles we held in our numb fingers.

In the immediate aftermath of the Montreal Massacre, we felt a tide of change. We believed that the time had come to collectively find the way to eliminate violence against women.

Every year since 1989 the PEI Advisory Council on the Status of Women has led a Purple Ribbon Campaign against Violence Against Women, beginning on November 25th. The campaign culminates with a Memorial Service on December 6th to remember the 14 women killed in the Montreal Massacre and the now 10 women on PEI who have been murdered by men since 1989. This year the theme for the Purple Ribbon Campaign is “Don’t stand by. Stand with. Everyone has a part to play in preventing violence against women.”

“Standing with” the women who have experienced gender-based violence means listening to them, believing them, and acting to assist them in getting the help they need. “Standing with” means that we discourage the misogyny that manifests itself through sexist jokes and derogatory language demeaning to women. “Standing with” may mean safely intervening if we witness or suspect acts of violence.

During the past year sexual violence against women has dominated the news headlines. Almost every day we learn about new accusations from women of sexual assault or sexual harassment or both by men. Most of the reports in the headlines are about political leaders, celebrities, movie moguls, comedians, news reporters, and other privileged and powerful men. Many of the men being accused have multiple victims who are now coming forward to name the perpetrators, often after decades of silence.

Recently, women were encouraged to “stand with” other women in solidarity by heading their messages with #metoo on Facebook, Twitter, or other social media to indicate that they, too, had been sexually assaulted or harassed by men in their lives. Within a few days, an astounding number of women and some men began their social media messages with #metoo. Some women described the incidents of sexual assault or harrassment they had experienced; others simply wrote #metoo.

The voices of all these women speaking the truth about sexual harassment and assault again feels like a moment of change, but it is only part of the answer. For real change to occur, we need to remember that everyone has a part to play in preventing violence against women. Men, it is time for you to speak out loudly against gender violence and to work together to eliminate the misogyny and sexism that are the root of that violence. Boys have to learn from their male role models that there is no place for the “boy talk” that demeans and objectifies women. In PEI, the group ManUp has been formed by men to “stand with” Island women in the protest against violence against women. We applaud this and all efforts to prevent and eliminate violence.

Everyone has a part to play in preventing violence against women. Wear a purple ribbon during the Purple Ribbon Campaign. Listen, believe survivors, speak out against misogyny and violence against women. Act and be the change.

Mari Basiletti is the Chairperson of the PEI Advisory Council on the Status of Women.


Tout le monde a un rôle à jouer pour prévenir la violence envers les femmes

6 décembre 2017

Le 6 décembre 1989, quatorze étudiantes de l’École polytechnique de Montréal ont été tuées en raison de leur sexe. Dans les jours suivant le massacre de Montréal, on a tenu des vigiles partout au Canada pour commémorer les victimes et sensibiliser la population à la violence faite aux femmes. À Charlottetown, femmes et hommes se sont rassemblés devant les édifices du gouvernement provincial. Unis dans la solidarité, nous sommes restés debout par une nuit glaciale de décembre, chandelles allumées, larmes et cire coulant entre des doigts engourdis.

Immédiatement après le massacre, nous avons ressenti une vague de changement. Nous nous sommes dit qu’il était temps de trouver collectivement des moyens d’éliminer la violence envers les femmes.

Depuis 1989, le Conseil consultatif sur la situation de la femme de l’Î.-P.-É. organise chaque année la Campagne du ruban violet contre la violence faite aux femmes. La campagne est lancée le 25 novembre et se termine le 6 décembre par un service tenu à la mémoire des quatorze femmes abattues lors du massacre de Montréal et des dix femmes qui ont été tuées par des hommes à l’Île-du-Prince-Édouard depuis 1989. Cette année, le thème de la Campagne du ruban violet est « N’en restez pas là. Soyez là. Tout le monde a un rôle à jouer pour prévenir la violence envers les femmes. »

« Être là » pour les femmes qui ont été victimes de violence fondée sur le sexe, ça veut dire les écouter, les croire, les aider à obtenir le soutien dont elles ont besoin. « Être là », ça veut dire détourner la misogynie qui se manifeste dans les blagues sexistes et le langage dérogatoire qui rabaisse les femmes. « Être là », ça peut aussi vouloir dire intervenir de façon sécuritaire lorsque nous soupçonnons des actes de violence ou lorsque nous en sommes témoins.

Au cours de la dernière année, l’actualité a été dominée par la violence sexuelle envers les femmes. Nous apprenons presque quotidiennement de nouvelles accusations portées par des femmes qui ont été harcelées, agressées ou les deux par des hommes. La plupart des incidents rapportés dans les médias visent des leaders de la sphère politique, des célébrités, des nababs du cinéma, des humoristes, des journalistes et d’autres hommes privilégiés et puissants. Dans le cas de nombreux accusés, plus d’une victime se déclarent, et ce, souvent après des décennies de silence.

Récemment, on a encouragé les femmes à exprimer leur solidarité en ajoutant le mot-clic #moiaussi (#metoo en anglais) à leurs messages sur Facebook, Twitter et les autres médias sociaux pour indiquer qu’elles aussi ont été agressées ou harcelées par des hommes au cours de leur vie. En quelques jours, un nombre étourdissant de femmes, sans compter certains hommes, se servaient du mot-clic sur les médias sociaux. Certaines décrivaient leurs expériences d’agression ou de harcèlement sexuel, tandis que d’autres se limitaient au mot-clic, qui en dit déjà long.

Les voix de toutes ces femmes révélant la vérité sur les agressions et le harcèlement sexuels semblent de nouveau former un moment décisif du changement – mais il ne s’agit là qu’une partie de la réponse. Pour accomplir de réels progrès, nous devons garder en tête que tout le monde a un rôle à jouer pour prévenir la violence envers les femmes. Il est temps pour les hommes de dénoncer haut et fort la violence fondée sur le sexe et de travailler ensemble pour éliminer la misogynie et le sexisme qui en sont la source. Les garçons doivent apprendre de bons modèles masculins que les « propos entre gars » n’ont pas leur place lorsqu’ils rabaissent et objectivent les femmes. À l’Île-du-Prince-Édouard, des hommes ont créé le groupe ManUp pour appuyer les femmes insulaires dans leur lutte contre la violence. Nous applaudissons l’initiative et tous les autres efforts déployés pour prévenir et éliminer la violence.

Tout le monde a un rôle à jouer pour prévenir la violence envers les femmes. Portez un ruban pendant la Campagne du ruban violet. Écoutez les survivantes et croyez-les. Intervenez et prenez position contre la misogynie et la violence faite aux femmes. Soyez le changement que vous souhaitez voir dans le monde.

Mari Basiletti préside le Conseil consultatif sur la situation de la femme de l’Î. P. É.

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2017-2018 Purple Ribbon Campaign

Don’t stand by. Stand with. Everyone has a part to play in preventing violence against women.

The Purple Ribbon Campaign Against Violence (Campagne du ruban violet contre la violence) was initiated by the PEI Advisory Council on the Status of Women in 1991 to remember the 14 women who were murdered at L’École Polytechnique in Montreal on December 6, 1989, and to raise awareness about violence against women.

Don’t stand by. Stand with. Everyone has a part to play in preventing violence against women. What does it mean to “stand with” people who experience violence? When we think of “bystanders” to violence we often think of witnesses, standing on the sidelines doing nothing. But what if everyone who witnessed bullying, abuse, or violence acted and intervened in some way to make a positive difference? Taking action when we see signs of violence is standing with the people who experience violence. Even small actions can make a difference. A small action could even save a life. With every action to help, together, we can build a community ready to take a stand against violence.

Six steps to taking action when we see signs of abuse or violence
1. Notice that something is happening
2. Recognize signs of abuse or violence in what is happening
3. Take responsibility for providing help
4. Assess safety: the victim’s, the aggressor’s, yours, and others’ nearby
5. Decide how to help in a way that keeps us and the people around us safe
6. Take action to help

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Memorial Services for Victims of Violence

December 6 is the National Day of Remembrance and Action on Violence Against Women. On and around December 6, candle-lighting services remember 14 young Women who in 1989 were murdered because they were women in what became known as the Montreal Massacre.

We remember ten women since 1989 murdered on Prince Edward Island by men who knew them. Join others in your community to light a candle of remembrance, to remember, to reflect, and to act so these murders end.

First mourn, then work for change
We remember 1989

28 Years Since the Montreal Massacre 

12:00 noon, Wednesday, December 6
Memorial Hall, Confederation Centre of the Arts (venue sponsor)
Mi’kmaw ceremony & prayers: Elder Judy Clark & Julie Pellissier-Lush
Guest Speaker: Treena Smith
Music: Sylvia Abikhattar-Mutch & Peter Mutch
More info: 902-368-4510
PEI Advisory Council on the Status of Women

Candles will be lit in commemoration of the 14 women who were murdered in Montreal in 1989 and the 10 Island women who have died at the hands of violent men since that year.

12:00 noon, Wednesday, December 6
Summerside Baptist Church
219 Church Street
More info: 902-436-9856
East Prince Women’s Information Centre

Teachers Resource Guide (Bilingual)
A Feature of the 2017 Purple Ribbon Campaign

Resource Guides
Handouts for Students / Documents à distribuer aux étudiants … PDF
Resources for Teachers / Ressources pour les enseignants … PDF
Resources to print on 11×17″ paper … PDF

Multilingual Poster

Don’t stand by. Stand with. Everyone has a part to play in ending violence against women.

This year’s multilingual 11×17” poster highlights the Purple Ribbon Campaign theme, “Don’t Stand By. Stand With.  Everyone has a part to play in preventing violence against women” in English, French, Mi’kmaq, Arabic, Farsi, Mandarin, Nepali, Korean, and Spanish. These represent the founding and most commonly spoken languages of our province. Thanks to JoDee Samuelson for adapting the bookmark image. Posters are available by request, or at   Download printable multilingual poster.


Bystander Infographic

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Orientation Sheet, 2013, PEI Advisory Council on the Status of Women
“Seeds” by Mari Basiletti. This work was commissioned by and hangs in the waiting room of the PEI Rape and Sexual Assault Centre, Charlottetown.

Pinning Bee – Thursday, November 9, 2017

It’s the season of purple! Our 2017-18 Campaign theme focuses on the power of bystanders: Don’t stand by. Stand with. Everyone has a part to play in ending violence against women.

Be a part of the solution by speaking up and taking action when you see violence occurring or have concerns that someone may be harmed. Be a part of the solution by wearing a purple ribbon to show your support for women and girls and your commitment to ending gender-based violence. Be a part of the solution by joining others to pin ribbons which will be distributed to schools, community groups and individuals across PEI.

The annual pinning bee will be held Thursday, November 9, 2017 at 6:30 – 8:00pm at the Confederation Centre Public Library, 145 Richmond Street, Charlottetown.

To see a few photos from the Pinning Bee, click on this Facebook post link:

December 6, 2017 Commentary … bilingual

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Thank You…

Thank you to the 2017 contributors to the Purple Ribbon Campaign for generous assistance. This list will be updated weekly, as contributors are confirmed:

  • Federated Women’s Institutes of PEI
  • Premier Wade MacLauchlan’s Office
  • City of Charlottetown
  • Confederation Centre of the Arts – Venue Sponsor
  • Premier’s Action Committee on Family Violence Prevention (PAC)
  • Judy Clark and Julie Pellissier-Lush, PEI Aboriginal Women’s Association
  • PEI Association for Newcomers translators
  • Members of the public who attended the Pinning Bee
  • JoDee Samuelson, for adapting the bookmark image
  • Staff at Anderson House, Family Violence Prevention Services (FVPS)
  • Kate, Karen, Irma, and Dan for their tremendous help with our Purple Ribbon mailout
  • Excel Accounting Services Inc.- mailout sponsor
  • Lynn MacNeil, Brandy and Conner Beasley, Debbie Langston, and Maribeth Rogers for assisting with collating and distributing purple ribbons and teachers’ guides
  • Joanne McNeary
  • Kara Katmouz, FVPS Outreach Coordinator, West Prince Region
  • Treena Smith, guest speaker
  • Sylvia Abikhattar-Mutch, soloist
  • Peter Mutch, cellist
  • Elders Julie Pellissier-Lush and Judy Clark, Mi’kmaw opening
  • Eileen LeClair, UPSE Silent Witnesses
  • Dawn Wilson
  • Michelle Buttery
  • Interministerial Women’s Secretariat and Hearts & Flowers
  • Advisory Council members
  • Paul Wood and Rob Warren
  • and the 27 candlelighters who participated in the Memorial Service


Volunteers helping with the annual Purple Ribbon Campaign mailout. Thanks to Kate, Karen, Irma, and Dan.

Volunteers helping with the annual Purple Ribbon Campaign mailout. Thanks to Kate, Karen, Irma, and Dan.

Volunteers at the Pinnng Bee at the Confederation Centre Public Library.

Pinning Bee volunteers keeping busy at the Pinning Bee at the Confederation Centre Public Library.

Click for more on past Purple Ribbon Campaigns.

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PEI Status of Women Council Holds Meeting in Wood Islands

The PEI Status of Women Council held its June meeting in eastern PEI at the Wood Islands Welcome Centre (formerly known as the Plough the Waves Centre). Council members and staff met for the day in a lovely accessible space on the second floor.


Council members were welcomed to the Centre by Audrey Shillabeer.  Left-Right: Mari Basiletti, Chairperson and Audrey Shillabeer, Site Administrator.




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Members of the PEI Advisory Council on the Status of Women – Back Row L-R: Diana Lariviere, Yvonne Deagle – Vice Chairperson, Melissa Mullen – Treasurer,  and Debbie Langston. Front Row L-R: Patti Wheatley, Lalana Paul, Pam Schurman-Montgomery, Mari Basiletti – Chairperson, and Madison Blanchard.

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Chairpersons Call for Increased Supports for Mental Health and Addictions / Le Cercle des présidentes préconise un soutien accru en santé mentale et en toxicomanie

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Chairpersons call for increased supports for mental health and addictions

Charlottetown (June 15, 2017) – Chairpersons of the PEI Advisory Council on the Status of Women from five decades – from the 1970s to the present – gathered June 8, 2017, to discuss mental health and addictions services for women.

The Chairs Circle consultation concluded that mental health and addictions services have been underfunded and community-based supports for mental wellbeing have been lacking across five decades. They shared concerns about struggling and stressed-out youth; women experiencing mental illness as a result of violence and then having to grasp and fight for help; and parents, especially mothers, speaking up after losing children to illness or suicide. The Chairs discussed basic income as a critical factor for mental wellness.

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Chairs Circle 2017 – Back Row (L-R):  Kirstin Lund, Dianne Porter, Anne Nicholson; Front Row (L-R): Mari Basiletti and Barb Currie.

Barb Currie, Chairperson of the Advisory Council from 1977 to 1978, reflected, “There is less silence and less shame about mental illness today than there once was.” Chairs Circle participants agreed that as more people speak up about their mental health and addictions experiences and reach out for help, more services need to be there to support them.

Dianne Porter, Chairperson of the Advisory Council from 1986 to 1989, talked about the need for a focus on prevention. She emphasized the need for early interventions that provide care for people before mental illness or substance use becomes a crisis. “We need to look at the root causes, especially when it comes to women,” Porter noted. “We are putting our resources into treating people when they are acutely sick instead of asking why they are suffering in the first place.”

Anne Nicholson, Chairperson of the Advisory Council from 1993 to 1996, said, “Time after time there have been reviews and reports on mental health and addictions services, and they all come to similar conclusions about what is needed – more community-based care and supports, more prevention, more resources.” Nicholson added, “People in the mental health and addictions system as workers and as patients know what is needed. Why can’t they be empowered and given resources to make the changes they know are best?”

Kirstin Lund, Chairperson of the Advisory Council from 2003 to 2008, added, “Part of making change in mental health and addictions services is recognizing the decades of research that have shown that trauma and abuse are connected to mental health. Violence against women and girls means these frequently are a factor in women’s mental health.” Lund said, “We need mental health and addictions services that are specific to the needs of people who have experienced trauma, violence, and abuse.”


Mari Basiletti, current Chairperson of the Advisory Council, is retired from a career in mental health that spanned almost 40 years. “After all these years,” says Basiletti, “the resources and funding for mental health and addictions are still very low, and there is little recognition of the costs to society when people are unwell. There is no admission that there is a human and economic cost when people are lacking the treatment and supports needed to live their fullest lives and be their best selves.”

Basiletti pointed to hopeful signs that government is paying attention to mental health and addictions services for youth, especially the Insight program for mental health and the Strength program for addictions, and she feels positive about the in-school mental health support teams being piloted beginning this September.

“When pilot programs or new approaches are proven successful,” Basiletti said, “it’s time to commit to them with province-wide access and stable, permanent funding.”

Current members of the PEI Advisory Council on the Status of Women will continue to advocate for good mental health and addictions services for women and all Islanders. The Council will assess government’s progress in the next Equality Report Card, to be released in June 2018.


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Le Cercle des présidentes préconise un soutien accru en santé mentale et en toxicomanie

Charlottetown (le 15 juin 2017) – Des femmes ayant occupé la présidence du Conseil consultatif sur la situation de la femme (CCSF) de l’Î.-P.-É. au cours des cinq dernières décennies se sont réunies le 8 juin 2017 pour discuter des services de santé mentale et de toxicomanie offerts aux femmes.

À la suite de la consultation du Cercle des présidentes, les participantes ont conclu qu’au cours des cinq dernières décennies, les services de santé mentale et de toxicomanie ont été sous-financés et les lacunes persistent relativement aux appuis communautaires favorisant le bien-être mental. Elles ont exprimé leurs préoccupations quant aux problèmes et au stress que vivent les jeunes; aux femmes qui éprouvent des problèmes de santé mentale après avoir été victimes de violence et qui doivent ensuite se battre pour obtenir de l’aide; et aux parents, particulièrement les mères, qui font part de leur expérience après avoir perdu un enfant malade ou suicidaire. Les présidentes ont également soulevé le revenu de base comme étant un facteur déterminant pour le bien-être mental.

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Cercle des présidentes 2017 : Back Row (L-R) :  Kirstin Lund, Dianne Porter, Anne Nicholson; Front Row (L-R) : Mari Basiletti et Barb Currie.

Selon Barb Currie, qui a assuré la présidence du CCSF de 1977 à 1978, « il y a moins de honte rattachée aux troubles mentaux qu’auparavant, et on commence à en parler davantage ». Les participantes de la consultation s’entendent sur le fait qu’il faut développer les services pour appuyer le nombre grandissant d’individus qui cherchent à confier leurs problèmes de santé mentale ou de toxicomanie et à obtenir de l’aide.

Dianne Porter, présidente du CCSF de 1986 à 1989, a souligné l’importance de la prévention. Elle a insisté sur le besoin de faire des interventions précoces pour prodiguer les soins nécessaires à l’individu avant que le trouble mental ou l’usage de substances ne devienne une véritable crise. « Nous devons nous pencher sur les causes des problèmes, particulièrement chez les femmes, d’expliquer madame Porter. Nous investissons les ressources dans le traitement des personnes très malades au lieu d’examiner le fondement de leur souffrance. »

Anne Nicholson, présidente du CCSF de 1993 à 1996, a ajouté que « les rapports et les études dans le domaine des services de santé mentale et de toxicomanie arrivent tous à des conclusions semblables : il faut absolument accroître les soins et les appuis communautaires, les efforts de prévention, et les ressources. Les gens qui travaillent dans le système de la santé mentale et de la toxicomanie et les patients qui y font appel savent bien quels sont les besoins. Pourquoi ne pas leur fournir les ressources nécessaires et leur donner les moyens d’apporter les changements qui s’imposent? »

Selon Kirstin Lund, qui a assuré la présidence du CCSF de 2003 à 2008, « la modification des services de santé mentale et de toxicomanie doit tenir compte des décennies de recherches qui démontrent que les traumatismes et les mauvais traitements sont liés à la santé mentale. À la lumière de la violence faite aux femmes et aux filles, ces facteurs de cause sont souvent en jeu dans la santé mentale des femmes. Nous avons donc besoin de services de santé mentale et de toxicomanie propres aux besoins des gens qui ont subi des traumatismes, de la violence et de mauvais traitements. »


La présidente actuelle du CCSF, Mari Basiletti, a fait carrière en santé mentale pendant près de 40 ans avant de prendre sa retraite. « Après toutes ces années, les ressources et le financement accordés au domaine de la santé mentale et de la toxicomanie sont toujours très minimes, et l’on ne reconnaît pas suffisamment les coûts qui en découlent pour la société. On n’admet pas qu’il y a des conséquences réelles sur les plans humain et économique lorsque les gens n’ont pas les traitements et les appuis dont ils ont besoin pour donner le meilleur d’eux-mêmes et vivre pleinement leur vie. »

Madame Basiletti a indiqué que certaines mesures positives témoignent de l’attention accordée par le gouvernement aux services de santé mentale et de toxicomanie pour les jeunes, notamment le programme Insight pour le volet de la santé mentale et le programme Force pour la toxicomanie. Elle voit d’un bon œil le projet pilote des équipes scolaires en santé mentale qui sera lancé en septembre.

Selon madame Basiletti, « c’est lorsque les programmes pilotes ou les nouvelles approches prouvent leur efficacité qu’il faut s’engager à les rendre accessibles dans toute la province en leur accordant un financement stable et permanent. »

Les membres actuels du Conseil consultatif sur la situation de la femme continueront de préconiser l’offre de bons services de santé mentale et de toxicomanie pour les femmes et tous les Insulaires. Le Conseil évaluera les progrès réalisés par le gouvernement dans sa prochaine Fiche de rendement sur l’égalité, qui sera publiée en juin 2018.


Conseil consultatif sur la situation de la femme de l’Île-du-Prince-Édouard
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